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Eng is not my first language, so please understand if the sentences are not smooth.
I broke up with my guy a month ago, we both are 31. He said he’s not 100% sure about me and said he needs time to think about our relationship.
He wanted to talk with me later, but I said no, because he always said I’m the one who spend his lifetime together when he’s seeing me. I couldn’t understand why he changed his mind and said that he needs time to think, so I said you’ll not be sure as well in the future if you’re not sure about me now. Then said I’ll never come to see you if you don’t say something now and he said nothing…I left.
I know I was so stupid. At that moment, I was mad and felt like he’s betraying me, but now I understand we need time to think our relationship. Last week was my birthday, but he didn’t wish me a happy birthday. We haven’t contacted since we broke up. It’s been a month.
His birthday is coming in 3weeks. I don’t know what I can do, because I’m afraid of that he’s already over me. I’m giving him a space and time to think even I didn’t tell him. Will he think I’m over him too? That’s why he doesn’t contact me? Should I wish him a happy birthday?
He had engaged last year. I’m worried he’s going back to his ex fiancé, but I don’t know what he thinks so I don’t know what I should do. Could you guys give me some advice? I want to know what guys think in this situation.
The reason why I’m confused is that I’m the one breaking up with him technically, but he was the one who needs time to think. Am I the one who have to contact him first? or should he contact me first? if I want this relationship is going to work again.
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