I’ve been single for 8 months now and I hate it.
Before this I was with someone for 7 years, and right before that was with a guy for 8 years. I’m 30 now so this is my first time really being single. I love that I can come and go as I please and don’t have to think about anyone else. But I really feel like I’m missing out.
I never seem to meet any guys over 25 that I like. I thought I’d be flirting with guys, having a few snogs, getting asked out. I’ve had nothing. Oh, one guy has asked me out but he wasn’t my type. I’m not saying I want one night stands but maybe I just want some attention! My friends say I’m beautiful, I’ve still got a good figure. I’m friendly (although shy so might come over as too confident?).
Most of my friends (that I’d call up to go out) don’t go out much anymore (babies, pregnant, work) so neither do I. I’ll go out once or twice a fortnight but always see the same people. I don’t have any single friends I can ask to go on the pull with me, speed dating or whatever.
This is a rant. I’m just feeling a bit low about it. You may think I’m whinging. If so let me know, it may make me feel better. Anyone in the same boat?
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