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my best friend and i haven’t been talking lately very much…she sometimes tells me she just doesn’t want to talk and that she still likes me and is still my friend. it’s lasted for a while now though, and i’m scared stiff i’ll lose her. but then tonight she posted another tweet about this guy she’s hurting over and i just texted her that perhaps she just wants me to leave her alone but i don’t want her to be sad and that i’m there if she wants to talk. should i not have done that? :( help

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NotAClue #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

I don’t see why not. Did she respond?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

no. :/ sometimes she’ll ignore my texts too. I’m just trying to be a good friend and I’m trying to love her despite what she’s put me through by ignoring me (she has low self-esteem) because under all the crap I see her. I see what she is. And she’s beautiful.

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NotAClue #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I know the feeling.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

you don’t think I’ve done any damage do you? :(

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NotAClue #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (45 minutes after post)

from what I’ve read no, but all women are different. Maybe she just doen’t want to talk right now.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (46 minutes after post)

maybe. I hope so. thanks.

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NotAClue #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (48 minutes after post)

your’e welcome. I’d say don’t give up, maybe, just step back & watch a little.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (52 minutes after post)

That’s what I’m trying to do. It’s hard though, because I’ve had a lot of instances in my life where people do this and then they leave me. I’m just really scared to death of that happening again. It was some of the worst pain I’ve ever felt.

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NotAClue #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (54 minutes after post)

soemtimes the best thing you can do for someone is doing nothing.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (58 minutes after post)

that’s useful. but how do I try to control the fear of losing her?

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NotAClue #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

fear is a terrible thing. The only thing I can say is try to think positive, and pray about if you’re that type of person.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

I am that type of person. :) thanks so much. you’re really great.

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NotAClue #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

thanks. I just wish someone would near me would notice.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 hours, 8 minutes after post)

u know i care a lot about ppl and i have learned not to care for ppl who dont specificly ask my help or ppl who dont usally respond or consider my advise…

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