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I really need aadvice on a situation my best friend

is going thru, She has been with the same guy for 14 or 15 years, he has slowly stripped her of her self esteem and has her scared to leave him, he has recked her credit, made it so she has to depend on him for everything, he made her family think she’e crazy and on drugs. I don’t really know what my place is in all this, but I’m affraid for her, he has taken her car so leaving is a problem he has taken her mail, and has all her information and you name it he has done it. he has so many connnections in almost everything, phone, car, insurance, credit cards, P.G&E everything! even her apartment, he makes it so she is isolated from everything and is so convincing to make her look bad. he even took her BMW and hid it from her. I told her to call the police but she fears him so much he tells people he fears she is giong to kill herself to get into her apartment.
How can I help her without him finding out about me, oh yeah he is freaking out wanting to know who I am and where I live but she hasn’t broken down and told him yet. HELP!!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Be careful maybe yo should go to the police, if shedoesn’t break soon he may become abbusive to find info., your in my prayers. Hope the best.

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