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Hi, I was asked out to a school dance(nothing big or formal or anything) by a guy friend WE ARE GOING AS FRIENDS.

I am completely uninterested in him in that way. So, I need help deciding on what to wear for the dance. I don’t want to look overdressed or anything,I’m the kind of no-heels type of girl. I know that my guy friend thinks I’m attractive and I don’t want to weird out his parents so no mini-mini booty shorts (or dresses and cleavage) HELP!!!

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Don’t go. He wants to be more than friends you are really just torturing him or using him as a crutch. If you can’t find a guy you really like you shouldn’t go with someone you are not attracted to. You are using him. Dress up really hot just to make it worth his while if you do go. At least he can have some nice dreams after the dance…

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Maveric 112 offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
Don’t go. He wants to be more than friends you are really just torturing him or using him as a crutch. If you can’t find a guy you really like you shouldn’t go with someone you are not attracted to. You are using him. Dress up really hot just to make it worth his while if you do go. At least he can have some nice dreams after the dance…

Though if you follow Ralphs advice of turning him down, make sure there is still plenty of time for him to find someone else to ask

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LKP offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (6 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Just be yourself & be comfortable

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