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Ahhotep offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Have a boyfriend bonfire. Burn all his stuff you still have. Write things that he told you down and burn them. Invite friends over to burn things of their pasts too. Have a fire in your yard and do it and kind of dance around it. I hope this helps

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Humiliation? But you had more loyalty and caring than he did. Out of the two of you, he has far more to be humiliated about than you.
Even now, after his betrayal, you still care about him. It’s kind of you, and it reflects well on your personality, but he isn’t worth the kindness. I hope you realize that =)

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red1263 offline Verified User (3 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Each and everyday, lift up your head, stick your chest out, and simply place one foot infront of the other. I know of no other way.

You will heal in time, and once you’ve accepted the pain of loss, only as a transitional event, as a sign that this chapter is now over and a new one will begin, then you’ll heal all the more faster.

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How to get over humiliation and pain?

Im 28, female and my boyfriend and partner left me for another girl after 5 years of relationship. Ive been dealing with the feelings of rejection, humiliation, betrayal, disappointment, loneliness, anger (towards him and his new girl) for more than 5 months now.

We had a big social life because he’s a successful and popular rock musician, and now I feel I can’t walk in the streets without feeling miserable thinking everyone we knew feel sorry for me. Like he left me for a younger girl and I haven’t found anyone yet… :(

Ive tried to meet new people, go out with guys but deep inside Im still in love with him and I’m hating myself for that. I wish I had a man to help me get over him but I havent found any that I want to be with (though I have offers).

I feel so miserable, I don’t think I deserve what he did to me. How can I get well after GOING THROUGH something this? Please someone tell me a way to cope with all these negative feelings.

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