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I have extremely strong feelings for my best guy friend, and I have no clue what to do about it!

We were at a sleepover at my friend’s house and we were outside in the freezing cold at the park…and he kept hugging me really tightly and wouldnt let me go (not that I minded)…then he kept his arms around me on the walk back, and just before we entered the house, he kissed me! And it was a real kiss…not just a peck…we ended up sleeping in the same bed and cuddling up and kissing and such…but I don’t know if he meant anything to come of it…because he seemed a bit unbothered by any of it…texting me asking if I was suprised and that things just happen…
What do I do? I want to let him know how I really feel (which Is VERY strongly…) but i’m terrified to lose him :’(
I’m 16, btw

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ymll offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

wait until you are absolutely sure he likes you back and then bring it up that you “kind of like him”, see what he says and go from there.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I think you should confess your feelings for him. It sounds like he was trying to be more than a friend to you on that night and he wanted to see how you’d respond to it. He is likely sharing the same feelings as you, but only he’s too afraid to tell you. When a guy and a girl both like each other more than a friend, they can both look at one another and feel the mutual attraction.

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