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So this guy and I were crushing on each other for like 2 months and I thought he was going to asks me out.

He knew I like him and I know he likes me. So today I gave him a note saying that I thought he was going to ask me out and I guess that I was wrong and that the reasons he isn’t asking me out shouldn’t be a problem. Because he thought that he would be a bad boyfriend and that he would be a bad friend if he went out with me. I told him that we have the weekends and before and after school and during lunchtime to hang out and that sports doesn’t take up all of our time. I haven’t said anything to I’m since and he hasn’t said anything to me. I regret giving him the note and I am afraid that I ruined our friendship with that single note. I don’t know what t do… Please help!!!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Whoa, not going to lie. If a girl said to me

“we have the weekends and before and after school and during lunchtime to hang out and that sports doesn’t take up all of our time”

I would think “Whoa dodged a bullet. She sounds clingy and desperate”

You should have just said “No problem!”

Give it a few more days, if he doesn’t talk to you. Just say “Hey, sorry if that note weirded you out. Just want to let you know I’m cool with it”. If he still doesn’t talk to you, well maybe just accept that he wasn’t all you thought he was.

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