night help: What does it exactly mean when a chick tells you “I’m done with the games”? - Help.com

just leave her alone

Well not exactly we’ve been fwb for a long time. Idk here lately she seems to be frustrated.

fwb? sorry i have no idea what that is

Friends with benefits. It’s been like 2 years.

But is she done with this whole thing or what?

oh i see….just out of curiosity, whats her legit name? Im not a stalker, but sometimes you can tell personality out of names

lori- wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Friends with benefits. It’s been like 2 years.

Ok, she wants you to date her or leave her the heck alone.

Exactly, in her mind she has probably made this crystal clear :) Do you see her as g/f material? If so, call her and tell her that you’d like to take her for dinner and get to know her better

Why start now? She’s seems like before she told me that to be frustrated with something but she has never came out and said.

Read my last post please writer?

Anonymous wrote:
Why start now? She’s seems like before she told me that to be frustrated with something but she has never came out and said.

Well over time she’s gotten to know you better. It’s her decision to ask you to either take it to the next level, or go. Maybe she wants to be in a relationship now, she’s got to that stage in her life.

good question jessie,
Whats her name?

I really don’t understand what her name has to do with it, you should look at the dynamic and her actions

just curiosity, why would it even hurt?

Anonymous wrote:
just curiosity, why would it even hurt?

I don’t think it would, but it wouldn’t help either. So…

name is not necessary. she’s tired of being just a lay for you - duh. Either commit or move on …

I really can’t see why you need to know the name….it’s a little scary…coming across as stalker-ish!
Especially when you posted as ‘you’ then an anonymous post!

OP- it could mean anything but I’m in agreement with what some of the others have said.
Why dont you just ask her? Say…’what do you mean?’
X

☆★space⋆junk. wrote:
I really can’t see why you need to know the name….it’s a little scary…coming across as stalker-ish!
Especially when you posted as ‘you’ then an anonymous post!

OP- it could mean anything but I’m in agreement with what some of the others have said.
Why dont you just ask her? Say…’what do you mean?’
X

Oh gosh was that anon Jessie too?

And….I don’t think a name has too much to do with dictating a personality myself.
Any feedback would purely be based on a personal assumption!

What would I have to do to get her back? What would it take?

⚜Pixie⚜ wrote:

☆★space⋆junk. wrote:
I really can’t see why you need to know the name….it’s a little scary…coming across as stalker-ish!
Especially when you posted as ‘you’ then an anonymous post!

OP- it could mean anything but I’m in agreement with what some of the others have said.
Why dont you just ask her? Say…’what do you mean?’
X

Oh gosh was that anon Jessie too?

Oh - LOL- Pixie …oh I’m not too sure - but it’s a little strange for two people to make such a strange request!
:-)

☆★space⋆junk. wrote:
And….I don’t think a name has too much to do with dictating a personality myself.
Any feedback would purely be based on a personal assumption!

Exactly, it doesn’t help anything - in fact, if there were anything in it it would be her parents personality - they chose the name!

Anonymous wrote:
What would I have to do to get her back? What would it take?

Tell her you want to start building your relationship if you do, if you don’t, let her go.

☆★space⋆junk. wrote:

⚜Pixie⚜ wrote:

☆★space⋆junk. wrote:
I really can’t see why you need to know the name….it’s a little scary…coming across as stalker-ish!
Especially when you posted as ‘you’ then an anonymous post!

OP- it could mean anything but I’m in agreement with what some of the others have said.
Why dont you just ask her? Say…’what do you mean?’
X

Oh gosh was that anon Jessie too?

Oh - LOL- Pixie …oh I’m not too sure - but it’s a little strange for two people to make such a strange request!
:-)

I suppose so! I’m a bit slow today

I didn’t mean to hurt her. Is she hurt? I just don’t know what I want.

Anonymous wrote:
I didn’t mean to hurt her. Is she hurt? I just don’t know what I want.

maybe she is, but she obviously wasn’t communicating herself well, so I wouldn’t go as far as saying you hurt her, as you weren’t aware you were doing anything wrong. You might need to have a chat with her, be honest and say you don’t know if you’re ready for a relationship and you need time to think. Don’t see her in that time, really reassess whether you could not see her again and whether you have feelings for her romantically.

I would say “games” means that she dosn’t want this fwb relationship anymore
and only will accept a more serious stance or forget it.