How do I get past this very deep desire my subconscious thinks I need?
Disney movies, love songs, romance stories, years of all my friends having boyfriends and not me…
Obviously, I know that I do not need a man. Especially as a Job Corps student. Dating on of them is equivalent to dating a coworker. But, since I’ve been living there (for a month and a half) I’ve had the interest of at least 4 that I know of. My subconscious finds this very exciting. I however, find it adds unnecessary drama. And at Job Corps, drama is the LAST thing anyone needs. So, how do I tell them and myself no? Also, how do I stop getting the interest of them without flat out ignoring them (since they make better friends than girls)?
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