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So its xmas motherlickas.

How are you? I personally hate the holidays. Family is good only in small doses, like maybe a lunch or a movie. A week is kind of overkill. And by that I mean slow and painful torture.

So I like to have a drink or ten.

How are your holidays going?

Actually screw that. I want to hear only from you fellow grinches out there. Lets feed the fire of hatred.

Cheers.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

my boyfriend of 2 and a half years stood me up tonight (christmas eve) as my family (dad his wife, brother and his girlfirend) waited for him for dinner.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
my boyfriend of 2 and a half years stood me up tonight (christmas eve) as my family (dad his wife, brother and his girlfirend) waited for him for dinner.

Well screw that *******, you deserve better. I raise my glass to the thoughts of him roasting in hell.

Santa brings you the gift of independence tonight, its almost as bad as socks but just as practical.

Cheers.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Snar wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
my boyfriend of 2 and a half years stood me up tonight (christmas eve) as my family (dad his wife, brother and his girlfirend) waited for him for dinner.

Well screw that *******, you deserve better. I raise my glass to the thoughts of him roasting in hell.

Santa brings you the gift of independence tonight, its almost as bad as socks but just as practical.

Cheers.

thank you, we raise our glasses together my friend.
and Thank you for the independence Santa, I have enough socks right now.
Cheers.

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pursuitofhappiness offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Boring as f***, back home in 2 days… can’t wait to party

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♫Remix.Impulse♫ offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Terrible. Simply terrible. Whole family came over and had so much fun while I sat in the corner. My dad yelled at me for sneaking into my room to use the computer when I was bored as hell and no one even noticed I was there. My cousins flirted while making fun of me for being gay.

That’s the holiday spirit.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

pursuitofhappiness wrote:
Boring as f***, back home in 2 days… can’t wait to party

Well I agree, but not about partying. Blech…crowds.

♫Remix.Impulse♫ wrote:
Terrible. Simply terrible. Whole family came over and had so much fun while I sat in the corner. My dad yelled at me for sneaking into my room to use the computer when I was bored as hell and no one even noticed I was there. My cousins flirted while making fun of me for being gay.

That’s the holiday spirit.

Thats rough. Sorry to hear that. Have a beer.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

*hands beer*

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♫Remix.Impulse♫ offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

Snar wrote:
*hands beer*

*Underage* XD

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

♫Remix.Impulse♫ wrote:

Snar wrote:
*hands beer*

*Underage* XD

Oshit I done committed a crime! Awell ;)

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♫Remix.Impulse♫ offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Snar wrote:

♫Remix.Impulse♫ wrote:
Snar wrote:
*hands beer*

*Underage* XD

Oshit I done committed a crime! Awell ;)

Ah well. I won’t tell :P Why don’t you like your family?

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

♫Remix.Impulse♫ wrote:

Snar wrote:
♫Remix.Impulse♫ wrote:
Snar wrote:
*hands beer*

*Underage* XD

Oshit I done committed a crime! Awell ;)

Ah well. I won’t tell :P Why don’t you like your family?

I love the buggers. Just on their own and in small doses. They keep trying to pretend they love eachother, and they don’t fool me now and they didn’t fool me when i was 8. Silly parents.

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♫Remix.Impulse♫ offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

Snar wrote:

♫Remix.Impulse♫ wrote:
Snar wrote:
♫Remix.Impulse♫ wrote:
Snar wrote:
*hands beer*

*Underage* XD

Oshit I done committed a crime! Awell ;)

Ah well. I won’t tell :P Why don’t you like your family?

I love the buggers. Just on their own and in small doses. They keep trying to pretend they love eachother, and they don’t fool me now and they didn’t fool me when i was 8. Silly parents.

Haha I know what you mean. My parents are usually fine. But my other family members suck. 1. They flirt with eachother. (I sh*t you not. We’re not rednecks btw…) 2. They all hate me. 3. They’re all stuck-up. 4. They’re all INCREDIBLY stupid… They act smart but they’re really not. 5. They don’t even TRY to talk to me, or understand me.

Meh.

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Mr_Grit offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Yeah. You guys sound like a blast to be around.

Spoiled. Complaining. Moaning. Sourpusses. Nice.

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♫Remix.Impulse♫ offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Mr_Grit wrote:
Yeah. You guys sound like a blast to be around.

Spoiled. Complaining. Moaning. Sourpusses. Nice.

Gee, thanks. Makes me feel a lot better…

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Mr_Grit offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 hours, 12 minutes after post)

You’re welcome.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 hours after post)

Mr. Grit, quit being a jerk and judging people you know nothing about. when people want you to condemn them they’ll ask for it. otherwise keep your rude comments to yourself. you’re not exactly exhibiting christmas spirit yourself.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Mr_Grit wrote:
Yeah. You guys sound like a blast to be around.

Spoiled. Complaining. Moaning. Sourpusses. Nice.

I got a solution. Feck right off. Mr “grit” my a$$.

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Mr_Grit offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (20 hours, 49 minutes after post)

What a great philosophy. How’s that working for you?

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Mr_Grit offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (20 hours, 57 minutes after post)

lolzy wrote:
Mr. Grit, quit being a jerk and judging people you know nothing about. when people want you to condemn them they’ll ask for it. otherwise keep your rude comments to yourself. you’re not exactly exhibiting christmas spirit yourself.

So if I say someone who admits being a grinch during Christmas and call him a grinch I’m at fault. What planet are you from?

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Mr_Grit wrote:
What a great philosophy. How’s that working for you?

Good. Its hedonistic utilitarianism. Maximize pleasure and minimize harm. So if you don’t like reading what I have to write, leave, and both your and my pleasure increases.

That is indeed a great philosophy and I thank Bentham for it and it is working out very well for both me and most of the western world.

Also: oh snap.

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pursuitofhappiness offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 hours, 28 minutes after post)

bah crowds can be nice when you’re with your friends, just gotta make some in the first place, ya diggg

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 hours, 32 minutes after post)

pursuitofhappiness wrote:
bah crowds can be nice when you’re with your friends, just gotta make some in the first place, ya diggg

Its true. My default mode is curmudgeon but friends can often soften the edge.

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pursuitofhappiness offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Snar wrote:

pursuitofhappiness wrote:
bah crowds can be nice when you’re with your friends, just gotta make some in the first place, ya diggg

Its true. My default mode is curmudgeon but friends can often soften the edge.

yeah lol

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windmills, offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (23 hours, 16 minutes after post)

I’m the same way - I can only take my family in small doses. Needless to say, I spent a few hours with them on Christmas day and then, after I felt like I had fulfilled my duty, I made a hurried escape.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Verisimilitude wrote:
I’m the same way - I can only take my family in small doses. Needless to say, I spent a few hours with them on Christmas day and then, after I felt like I had fulfilled my duty, I made a hurried escape.

Yeah. I love em in small doses, a week is just a bit much. But I’ll put on a happy face for their sake. They deserve it.

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Chunkymoves offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Best Christmas in 6 years. Can’t join you this time. Where were you last year :-)

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BigWilly! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 53 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Well, got through the ordeal and about ready to pull up stakes and head out. There’s a small town with many beers and friends calling my name.. maybe camp out in the mountains. Who gives a sh!t if it’s cold.. got a hot furnace, warm dog, and plenty of cold beer.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

I was alone

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trina.ramon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

I love the holidays, but I am always a little insecure about what everything means in terms of my relationship. I kept it to myself though. My extended family exploded on Xmas day. There is a valid reason Xmas only comes once a year — that is too much drama for even twice a year. I might convince my boyfriend we should take a cruise next year. Spend Xmas in the middle of the ocean — just the two of us.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

Chunkymoves wrote:
Best Christmas in 6 years. Can’t join you this time. Where were you last year :-)

Haha same place my friend.

Anonymous wrote:
I was alone

Thats rough bud, I’m sorry to hear that.

trina.ramon wrote:
I love the holidays, but I am always a little insecure about what everything means in terms of my relationship. I kept it to myself though. My extended family exploded on Xmas day. There is a valid reason Xmas only comes once a year — that is too much drama for even twice a year. I might convince my boyfriend we should take a cruise next year. Spend Xmas in the middle of the ocean — just the two of us.

I always end up single by this time of the year so I have no experience in this regard.

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