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hey, i am sry you feel so low today.. if you need to talk i am always here i like to lisen and help the best i can…

i know we are all worried about her even my self you guys on here are better friends to me then some on my own friends here…well i will taslk later with you .. class is over

Hey Blake, I just read your post & I think your episode of letting your emotions show is healthy. Why do we as a society think that if we cry because of sympathy or caring about someone we are weak. I think the opposite is true. Those who can cry over a sad situation are the strongest, because we have come to the realization that were all interconnected in a way & have feelings of hurt right along with the others who are hurting. I admit, when I was younger I cried when I saw old yeller, and was ashamed then, but now I could bawl in front of people over the movie & not care who sees. You are strong….Live strong.

Thanks for that! :o) … actually maybe I’ll go and watch a sad movie, a cry always helps - you keep blubbing honey, it’s good for the soul! (I’ve not cried in ages, maybe thats why I’m mental!!!)

Blakeslee, I do the exact same thing sometimes when I’m in my car. Its like when I hear a really good song that touches my heart, something comes over me that I cannot describe. I see where your coming from man and just wanted to let you know that your not alone.

Anytime man.

What happened to Jo and who is she? Sorry - I’m new here! Anyway, whatever happened to her, I’m sorry it hit you so bad but crying is definately the way to go, if you feel stressed and sad and lost, cry - I don’t know why it helps, but it does, a lot! I heard something on the news last week about a hormone that is released in “emotional” tears but not in other tears (like when you cut an onion) and they think that is why crying makes us feel better - but they just don’t know why or what the hormone does yet. The reason they said that is because there is a club in London where people go to cry, apparently it releases loads of tension and is better for you than going to a club where you drink and dance! Anyway, whether or not it means you’re weak, if you feel you need to do it, follow your instincts, your body knows you better than stupid rules imposed upon us by society!

Hey, I’m really sorry you’re having such a hard time. I hope she’s ok, too. You seem to be a really wise person and compassionate, too.

Maybe she just though “sod it” and went on holiday? Or maybe her pc broke down? … a little more likely than she just died or decided to abandon you! And if she did decide to abandon you (and I’m sure she didn’t, betcha it’s just her pc broke) then maybe she no longer needs your support because she’s standing up for herself and feels better! It’s only been a few days, worry after a month!
I still stand by what I said about crying, but I think you’re worrying unnecessarily, and possibly you might have something else in your life causing you stress which you are trying to cover with your concern for Jo? Take care x

Hi Blakeslee.
I just read this post. Hey you, I know how you were feeling. I just want you to know I’m with you in your heart and care. You helped me recently to my post, and it meant alot to me. I send you a big hug.
Jonetta

God has chosen the weak of the world to bring to nought the things that are strong. God considers us the strongest So I say again…You are not weak, regardless of what you think. You have realised that crying is an emotion that shows true character, and love for the hurting people in the world. I mean I am crying inside when I hear of all the evil that happens on this earth. But then I am able to overcome these feelings because we as Christians know that sufferiing only continues for a very brief time, even if it feels like an eternity. When our physical bodies can no longer function, and we die, then we will have a new spiritual body that is perfect, and live for eternity with our God, who by the way does consider his true followers sons & daughters heirs to his kingdom. If I was just typing this without proof, I would wonder is that really the truth, but as I stated in a prior post, I have witnessed HIS intervention in a miracle that if it had been captured on video, would be one of the most inspiring proofs that God does love us, and he will reward those who are written in the Book Of Life.

There is a catch though, only those who have asked Jesus to be their Saviour, and follow his commandments as given the the New Testament Gospels will cheat the second death, and inherit eternal life.