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I still miss him..is this normal?

It’s been 10 months since me and my ex bf’s breakup.After the breakup, we agreed to be friends. Around September, i stopped talking to him cuz i thought im annoying him. And plus, I dont want him to know that i still have feelings for him…that’s why. And around October, my friend got me a job where she and my ex both work. And no I dont work there because of him. Its because i need work experience, thats why my friend helped me.
Everytime I go to work, My ex always stares at me. But all we ever said to each other was “hello” and a smile every time we passed by each other…and yea i didnt even bother start a conversation with him cuz like i said, i dont want him to see that i still love him cuz it will push him away more. And today after work, I found out that today was his last day of work and of course I got disappointed and sad. And I shouldve still talk to him ..And I only saw him for 15 seconds today :( soI dont get to talk to him
Yea I know this doesnt sound really normal at all but do u think it is?

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itsnotforus offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

why dont you write him a card…with a pair of movie tickets and say can we be friends? or keep in contact througha social network but if you like him some contact with some girls if you dont have good communication can drive you crazy so be careful…so yeah maybe text him …..go to movies…and say i like you and i dont want to lose your friendship

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

its up to you…at least you can say you tried

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

its normal just dont get crazy and dont lose common sense

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 hours, 46 minutes after post)

“The Golden Rule to Get Over a Relationship Break Up”:
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“How to Get Over a Relationship · You must pre-live the future, not re-live the past”:
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“11 Ways to Get Over One Relationship And Start Looking For The Next”:
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“How to Mend Your Broken Heart: Overcome Emotional Pain at the End of a Relationship”:
http://www.enotalone.com/article/4871…

“Healing a Broken Heart”:
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“How to Get Over A Break Up Fast and Painlessly”:
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