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30thriving

Anyone remember me?

Hi all! Seems so long since I’ve been here and everyone has different pics!

I’ve been so busy with a full time job and also doing my degree in a subject I adore…and it all started with Help.com. I joined here Feb 2011 still in deep mourning following the death of my mother, no job, family relations tense and to be honest…no hope really. People here gave me the confidence to pick myself back up and keep striving for something better…it was also here I seen someone mention about doing a part time degree. I’ve also made a few amazing friends who are continuing the journey with me.

So what I really wanted to say….is THANK YOU. To those who post and think that their words won’t help…they do. To those who take time out of their day to respond to a stranger and to those who feel they can’t help but offer words of encouragement…it all means so much.

To anyone new to this site…give it a chance, this is a great community and I’m so glad I joined at my lowest point…oh and I’ll try to visit more often!!

30thriving xx

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~FlutterBy~ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

You are beautiful 30 thriving - Yes! I remember you.
Great you’ve been busy and sound happy.
Lovely to hear from you, how could I forget such a rose,
Love lots, X (AKA EarthGoddess)

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moonlightsupper 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

Hi 30thriving! I am newish around here and find your warm words very encouraging and sincere. You seem to have a big heart and a zest for life. I am glad you are making progress. What you have been through is hard, and you may not yet be where you would like to be but hang in there darling. Your inner strength will pull you through. Remember you are not where you used to be so things can only get better. And I wish you you exactly that! (((Hug!)))

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Chunkymoves 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Don’t remember, so time for a hello…

Hey

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Agent Smith 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 45 minutes after post)

I can’t say I remember you 30 thriving, but I was kind of distracted from the site by uni in February. Going through something similar now with my own mother having recently passed away it is encouraging for me to hear how things have now improved for you.

I’ve been on this site for a number of years now, albeit intermittently, and I agree that their is a good community on here, particularly when you need support.

Thanks guys.

Help me with: As some of you on here know I lost my mother to cancer in 2011.

Dyal 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 hours, 33 minutes after post)

yeah i remember you :-)

Welcome back friend and happy new year.

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IrAdler 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 2 minutes after post)

I am so glad you overcome of your grief and found help here. Welcome back and Happy New Year!

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Dalek Karan 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Welcome back, I am pleased all is well with you.

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Dæmon 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 56 minutes after post)

I don’t remember you seeing you before.

I’m Dæmon but you can call me panda. Nice to meet you :3

30thriving 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Ah hello EarthGoddess! :) Loving the new name and how lovely to see you again!

Hiya Moonlightsupper…yep things are by no means perfect but getting there which is fantastic from where I was this time last year. How are you finding it here? :)

Hello to you too Chunkymoves! :)

Hi Agent Smith. I am so sorry to hear about your mother, you have my deepest sympathies. I took my mothers passing very hard and honestly could not see a way past it. The grieving process can be long but it is necessary to come out the other side of it. Someone told me on here – don’t cry because they’re gone, smile because you knew them. And that is the best advice I can give you – remember her warmly and think about the good times and try not to dwell on the reasons she was taken from you. It doesn’t get easier living without a loved one but it does get bearable – I promise. If I can help anymore or you want to chat feel free to shout to me xx

Hi Dyal, Beatricegalant and fatb.two nice to see you guys again! :D

Hello Panda, pleasure to meet you too!! :D

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randomchatsmith 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Thanks for the invite FB/EG. :-)

No, I don’t think I knew you, but I’d be happy to interact with you.

You seem to be one who has learned a lot in life by pain. I suppose (presume) you place a lot of importance on relationships and the non-tangibles.

AND I’m very happy to read you were helped and you’re encouraging people to keep being good and support each other.

Very happy to read your post words.

Take care.

And all the best in your vocation/course and life.

Pink Freud 63 #
Spokane, WA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Yup, I remember you. Welcome back.

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BigWilly! 51 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Yup, remember you. Good to see that things are going well for you.

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RaspberryUnicorn42 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 hours, 21 minutes after post)

I don’t remember your posts, but I remember your name. Welcome back!

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RaspberryUnicorn42 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 hours, 22 minutes after post)

And it’s true. Just knowing this community is here makes my life better.

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Jolly Delta Charger 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (17 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Of we remember you. Nice to see you back for a while.

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Max 53 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (23 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Some of your posts and name sounds familiar, but I’ve seen so many friends leave and I have a bad memory. My hard drive is full…lol.
Did we talk before?

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30thriving 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

I don’t think we did Max but nice to meet you! :) And hello again Jolly :D

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Sparrowhawk 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

I remember your name, though I’m not sure we’ve spoken here before. Good to see you back :)

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DarkSnow 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 20 hours after post)

Sparrowhawk wrote:
I remember your name, though I’m not sure we’ve spoken here before. Good to see you back :)

Same ^^ I don’t recall helping you, but I do remember your name. Congratulations on improving your life. =)
It’s something we forget on this website a lot, but all any of us can do to help another person is give them the encouragement and advice they need. The rest is all up to them, so well done ^^

Sparrowhawk 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

DarkSnow wrote:
It’s something we forget on this website a lot, but all any of us can do to help another person is give them the encouragement and advice they need. The rest is all up to them, so well done ^^

Excellent point :)

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Genesis721 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 days, 3 hours after post)

I don’t recall talking to you but, I am so glad you are on your feet. One rule of life when things get tough is “too keep going”. So happy you survived and thanks for getting back to everyone on this website.

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