class help: I’m 13 and I can’t get a bf.

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I’m 13 and I can’t get a bf.

Everyone thinks that it is my choice. It’s not. Its the fact that guys don’t like me. My really close friend got her first bf this year. I try to act happy for her, but her bf is always flirting with a girl in my class and me. I know when he calls me fat he is teasing but I always have to walk away because I’m about to cry .Is that bad? Also there is a guy in my class who is super cute and he is in my confermation class. He hurt his arm and it is in a sling and in art one day he told his good freind he was going to sit by ME! When I was helping him his friend said” You love (my name)” and he didn’t respond. Instead he just look at me for like 30 seconds. By the way he is a popular and a jock so he is off limets. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?

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Sam❤ 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Oh no the world is comming to an end!

Help me with: Are there any good people left in this world?

Space Weaver 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

…what you need a boyfriend at only 13 for.

Cell wrote:
Wait until you’re 17.

More like 30.

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kilroy 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Time we all have it enjoy life as it is ,never rush life

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Chaney 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Your still a kid, enjoy it while you can.

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Bex-a-Plenty 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

girl, you are thirteen. it can wait. (what would you even do with a boy at that age anyway? hold hands? :/)

(though keep in mind this is coming from someone who didn’t do anything until age 18)
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DarkSnow 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
her bf is always flirting with a girl in my class and me

Happens a lot, unfortunately. It’s generally best to wait until people grow up some more and act responsible. Young men aren’t known for their commitment.

kevincol1 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

dont worry about that your to young,

Help me with: not even in the sucidel line want to talk to me i been waiting for more then an hour to talk to some one and nothing lol

windmills, 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 hours, 27 minutes after post)

I don’t think you should get a boyfriend just to emulate your friends or to feel a sense of pride and accomplishment for having one. Wait until you can find someone with whom you can feel a connection and appreciate them as much as they appreciate you.

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SomeNZguy 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Patience young grasshopper. He will come.. but you’ll have to prove yourself worthy.

Prove yourself worthy by having the knowledge and analytical skills of a university science graduate, the life skills of a 30 year old, the optimism of a 5 year old, the wisdom of a 45 year old, and the generosity of spirit of a laughing monk. And make sure you have a portfolio of hobbies unique to you. Then you shall be worthy young grasshopper. Then you shall find your boyfriend. And he shall be worthy of you.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

Look I’m 13 and I totally get what your saying tbh your not to young people in my year neck for goodness sake. Here’s what I learned from previous relationships no boy is off limits just cuz he’s popular it doesn’t mean you can’t date tell him how you feel if he does like you tell him you like him back don’t. Leave him hanging okay? And btw I bet your totally not fat :-)

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