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Why not ask her out on a date? You don’t necessarily have to say the word “date” when you ask her. Just something like “Hey, would you like to see a movie some time?” would be sufficient. She will most likely understand your intentions by doing this as soon as you ask her. Or, in case you’d rather not make it a formal date the first time, perhaps you could invite her to do a fun activity with you - bowling, mini golf, etc. The more you invite her to spend time with just you the more apt she is to realize that you like her more than a friend. But sooner or later, if the dates go well and she shows interest in you, you will have to tell her your feelings.

Good luck :)

Well, the problem is that you’re afraid and don’t want to ask her. The solution is to ask her.
How you get from one of those to the other is the tricky part though ^^

Do you think if you gave yourself a lot of time to work up the courage to ask her you could do it? Perhaps it seems scary at first, but you can get used to talking to other people and not be as shy.

good luck with that :)

Thank you Verisimilitude and DarkSnow for your advice. I know that I have to ask her out if I want to be with her but I never could but I have to. It would be convenient if she would ask me out cause then she could be happy I know she doesn’t know it and I would treat her the way she deserves to be treated. Sorry if I’m getting a little carried away but I haven’t talked to anyone about this. I guess I just gotta throw myself out there and take a leap of faith ( I know that sounds dramatic) hoping she will say yes. She would make me so happy.

ask her out, and relax!

Anonymous wrote:
Thank you Verisimilitude and DarkSnow for your advice. I know that I have to ask her out if I want to be with her but I never could but I have to. It would be convenient if she would ask me out cause then she could be happy I know she doesn’t know it and I would treat her the way she deserves to be treated. Sorry if I’m getting a little carried away but I haven’t talked to anyone about this. I guess I just gotta throw myself out there and take a leap of faith ( I know that sounds dramatic) hoping she will say yes. She would make me so happy.

It’s natural to have apprehension about asking out someone whom you really like. No need to apologize for getting carried away. I believe we can all say that we have been there and become consumed with enthusiasm at some point about something.

It’s best for one not to depend on the other person to make the move and ask one out. Furthermore, most girls like it for a guy to ask first. It shows that a guy is confident and not afraid to take risks. :)

All of life is a risk. Might as well take it when the benefits seem to outweigh the risks, though =)

I know, I just wish I had the ability to talk casually and kid around with her like everyone else. It’s so frustrating, It seems like I’m so different from everyone else even though I do have friends but it seems like everything is so much easier for them and they’re able to talk to her and other girls alot easier than I can.

It’s probably difficult for you to talk casually with her because you view her as a potential girlfriend and therefore feel tense and nervous around her. The best way to talk casually and comfortably with her would be to view her as just a friend for now. Try to keep the thoughts and feelings connected with “love” towards her repressed long enough for you to grow more relaxed and less nervous when conversing with her. Perhaps you could think of something that interests you and her both and start a conversation by introducing it. I find that it’s much easier to talk to others when the subject contains a mutual interest.

Yes, your right I’ll try to think of something that we both like to talk to her about I know I need to become better friends with her so I can be relaxed around her. Thank you very much for taking your time to help a stranger.

Anytime. :)