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Hello.

Im 13 years old and my grandma’s dying because of kool (disease that attack the lungs. And my big brother just quitted doing drugs. And hes been smoking a LOT! And my mom is thinking about kicking him out because he dosent care about anything else than boze and smokes . I dont knowing what to do i fell so sorry for my mom. Ps. My parents are divorced ( this is ritten on a iPhone so the spell-helper thing might make it harder to understand and im typing this at 1.am !

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Shizu-Chan offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

There’s not much you can do. Try comforting both your brother and your mom when you can. If your brother is trying to change, hopefully he can get it across to your mom and that might change her opinion. It sucks, but in that situation the best you can do is comfort each side.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (38 minutes after post)

I think you should talk with your brother and ask him why did he turned to boze and smokes as a way to live his life. I think it provide an escape from reality for him and that is probably somthing that can be treated - talk with you mother after you talk with him - he is in need of help. if he refuse to get it your mother is doing what have to be done - provided that your brother is in an age where he can take of his self. if he is not in such age you need to involve more people who know your family.

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