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How do I show my ex partner she is confusing my kids.

We have only been split up for 3 months already for the past 2and half moths she has introduced them to her new bloke. Ive been away for 6 weeks now and only recently found out about all of this. I speak to my ex and kids everyday and from what she has told me there behaviour is worse. They dont listen to her view are messing about at night and not sleeping. This has happened im the last 2 months. Before we split up and after I see the kids the same as my working hours allowed me. My children are 21 months and 5 my 5 year old is on the autistic spectrum. Im going to be reunited with then im 5 days. Another factor is this bloke has been staying over and its basically like he has replaced me. When im back im going to be with my kids the same as before ive told my ex I dont want her new fella around when I am she agrees on that. Basically are my kids going to get confused and is it all to much for them and how can I make her see. If you know of any web pages please add thank you

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Unfortunately you have to work with what you’ve got. You be consistent for the kids. A loving parent is not replaced so easily or quickly. It does seem that she is moving through relationships rather quickly. If you can provide a more stable home, you should try to get physical custody. Kids with ASD need predictability - heck, all kids do.

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How do I show my ex partner she is confusing my kids. We have only been split up for 3 months already for the past 2and half moths she has introduced them to her new bloke. Ive been away for 6 weeks now and only recently found out about all of this. I speak to my ex and kids everyday and from what she has told me there behaviour is worse. They dont listen to her view are messing about at night and not sleeping. This has happened im the last 2 months. Before we split up and after I see the kids the same as my working hours allowed me. My children are 21 months and 5 my 5 year old is on the autistic spectrum. Im going to be reunited with then im 5 days. Another factor is this bloke has been staying over and its basically like he has replaced me. When im back im going to be with my kids the same as before ive told my ex I dont want her new fella around when I am she agrees on that. Basically are my kids going to get confused and is it all to much for them and how can I make her see. If you know of any web pages please add thank you

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