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a loner? Someone who keeps to themselves, has no friends? Someone who is very independent, enjoys low key settings, prefers being at home? I gravitate towards being a loner, being introverted. I do however actually love to talk, it’s not that I’m socially inept. I am very creative and driven. I like to spend time in deep thought. I also love to write and draw/paint. I am very close to my brothers, they are my best friends. I guess I am just curious as to whether or not a guy would find that appealing? I mean I obviously would like to be married down the road. I personally view other introverted people as interesting and mysterious. I definitely hope to find someone else who is like-minded.

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Agent Smith offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Yes. Until you get to know me fairly well I’ll tend to come off as introverted too.

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1 year, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Yup…but you have to find someone when u go out…u know? Im a girl though :)

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irregularone offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Would love to, now if only we can find a way to make it work…
lol jp, but yea, a lot of guys are like that too. You just gotta find a way to make them realize they can with you.

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turtledove24 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

i say go for it. i mean if you like the guy enough.

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lucif offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Sure, but you’d still have to meet.

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turtledove24 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

ok i’m confused, did he ask you out

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fuki offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (39 minutes after post)

I’d probably be your huckleberry - if I wasn’t already taken… ;-)

You sound like my kinda gal! The problem is you gotta let ppl know you is there…

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~CaitherrA~ offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

I’m the same way as you. :)

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windmills, offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

Absolutely. I do not dislike the company of others, but I have noticed I feel more at ease when I’m alone or just around one other person. While the idea of embarking on activities that involve social interaction is not entirely something to which I am opposed, I’d sooner find a place of quietude and seclusion for reading. All in all, I’d say that I’m a fairly introverted individual whose behavioral characteristics are very similar to that which you described.

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Fallout offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 97 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

not meaning to say that its the only way but there are some good dating sources out there that help you define who you are and and what your looking for in your partner. i know how its like, im rather reserved myself. i dont go out much and i would rather stay at home than go to a rally -depending on what the rally is about- and just a select number of friends that i talk to. i also draw/paint, but i have terrible writers and artist block x__x

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