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So there is this guy i just met, i saw him at a basketball tournament held at my highschool and i thouhght right at that moment that he was cute.

So i found out his name and I added him on facebook. About a week after the tournament and he added me right away. So then one day I was on facebook and he messaged me hey so obviously he noticed me because at the tournament we had that eye meeting experience. But then i saw he had a girlfriend who is a granade meaning very ugly. I mean i will admit if a girl is pretty but man she is horrible looking and he is gorgeous. Also we talk alot but im just not sure what step i should take next. So what should i do i am soo confused please help.

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serviceofsong offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Stay wise. God knows the best person for you (Him first, and if you seek Him first, you have access to awesome blessings - if you want Heaven and the blessings, please see Matthew 6:25-33 and Romans 10:9 and take hold of it).

Since you’ve met him/been talking, he has his opportunity to consider whether or not he wants to be with that girl. A good relationship also calls for being friends. It’s better not to rush into it. Plus, if you really want a good relationship, you want a man that does the right thing, and doesn’t just jump right into a relationship out of another (unless he hears God lol). You wouldn’t want to be in her shoes, if he would just dump her for someone attractive.

If you do what Romans 10:9 says or have, you have access as a child of God (Galatians 3:26) to use God’s Son’s name (John 14:13-14, 1 John 5:14-15), and if you ask for something according to His will in the name of Jesus, you are HEARD. God already hears everything. You will receive. So I suggest that you pray for him, and God’s will with you two, and trust God. He always gives what’s best for us, and more than we can ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). Trust God. Be honest. Remember the other girl is human. Pray. Let God shape it.

If he likes you, he’s having to deal with it. Keep the contact with wisdom.

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RDH1976 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Take no other steps unless he loses the girlfriend. Just because someone isn’t “pretty” doesn’t mean they are a bad person, nor is the opposite true. He’s off the market, and truly, if he left his girlfriend to be with you, that doesn’t speak very highly of him. So, just be his friend and see what happens. You may find out he’s not a great guy after all.

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