How do I handle this?
I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago. I felt like I had to do it. Sometimes I like him and enjoy being around him, but other times I just don’t feel like I have anything in common with him and I’m not attracted to him. I don’t like what he chooses to do with his time/life and he’s not really a person I would like to see myself with in the future. Anyway, despite all this I’ve had trouble letting go and have still been talking to him online. He never really wanted to break up apparently, and I think he’s hurt, although he says that’s not it…but he’s been really mean. The other day he told me he wouldn’t want to be my friend because I’m a bad friend. He said that I’m flaky, I talk **** about people, and I never reach out. I felt really insulted and hurt by this. I don’t think I’m like that. I’ve vented to him about my friends before, but I didn’t think it was talking ****. I can’t stop thinking about it. I feel like I must be masochistic or something. Also, I’m worried because we had been together for about a year, and we used to hang out together all the time and would go out to the same friends. Now I don’t really want to go hang out with these friends when I know he might be around or telling them bad things about me. I feel lonely. Help :(
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