wow… attention seeker much? what exactly does she mean by chase? you deserve respect, not games.
S✪NICB❂❂M wrote:
wow… attention seeker much? what exactly does she mean by chase? you deserve respect, not games.
For me to just say like: “no please come over!” or something.. I don’t exactly know but I told her tonight I shouldn’t have to do that for her to come over. She kept asking if I would and I said no so she left.
That’s remarkable immature of her… mind if i ask how long you two have been together and how old she is? might help me figure out whats going on
S✪NICB❂❂M wrote:
That’s remarkable immature of her… mind if i ask how long you two have been together and how old she is? might help me figure out whats going on
10 months and 14
Ok… well her age, to me, explains a lot. New to dating I’m assuming, the media is packed with “standards” for women to be so great they are begged for which it sounds like she’s trying to live up to. The only thing I can think of is for you to tell her that real relationships aren’t like what she sees on TV. A real relationship has respect and reciprocation. You two have been together long enough that I think it would be okay to be open with her about how she is acting. Frankly it is immature and disrespectful to you, and it contributes nothing to your relationship. If this has just started, maybe see if it’s just a phase that will bow over. If it’s old behavior that you’re getting sick of, tell her you’re getting sick of it. She needs to decide if this is a relationship or a game. Although, maybe say it more kindly than I did just there… :P
Why don’t you go over to her place instead? ;)
Avalian wrote:
Why don’t you go over to her place instead? ;)
She doesn’t want me to, When I’d ask when we first started dating she’d quickly answer no! without even asking.
then wait for her to invite you out or to invite herself over.
it’s all about give and take
Set To Fail wrote:
Avalian wrote:
Why don’t you go over to her place instead? ;)
She doesn’t want me to, When I’d ask when we first started dating she’d quickly answer no! without even asking.
Well she probably does not trust you enough. Have you been friends for a while or like started dating from blank?
You can’t really jump in to things like Hey! Can i come onver? XD And like you just met… let your relationship grow and bloom for a while. All will come with time ;)
Avalian wrote:
Set To Fail wrote:
Avalian wrote:
Why don’t you go over to her place instead? ;)
She doesn’t want me to, When I’d ask when we first started dating she’d quickly answer no! without even asking.
Well she probably does not trust you enough. Have you been friends for a while or like started dating from blank?
You can’t really jump in to things like Hey! Can i come onver? XD And like you just met… let your relationship grow and bloom for a while. All will come with time ;)
he did say it’s been 10 months since they started going out… :P
S✪NICB❂❂M wrote:
Avalian wrote:
Set To Fail wrote:
Avalian wrote:
Why don’t you go over to her place instead? ;)
She doesn’t want me to, When I’d ask when we first started dating she’d quickly answer no! without even asking.
Well she probably does not trust you enough. Have you been friends for a while or like started dating from blank?
You can’t really jump in to things like Hey! Can i come onver? XD And like you just met… let your relationship grow and bloom for a while. All will come with time ;)
he did say it’s been 10 months since they started going out… :P
He did? Oh sh :(( Didint see that im sorry :((
S✪NICB❂❂M wrote:
Avalian wrote:
Set To Fail wrote:
Avalian wrote:
Why don’t you go over to her place instead? ;)
She doesn’t want me to, When I’d ask when we first started dating she’d quickly answer no! without even asking.
Well she probably does not trust you enough. Have you been friends for a while or like started dating from blank?
You can’t really jump in to things like Hey! Can i come onver? XD And like you just met… let your relationship grow and bloom for a while. All will come with time ;)
he did say it’s been 10 months since they started going out… :P
Oh my bad! Forgive me i just saw that. Well that changes stuff :/…
LOL don’t worry about it, it was on a reply, not the post :P easy to miss.
But still, you have a point. If it’s her first relationship she might be nervous or shy about you being at her place around her parents.
i still think it’s a maturity issue though
S✪NICB❂❂M wrote:
LOL don’t worry about it, it was on a reply, not the post :P easy to miss.
But still, you have a point. If it’s her first relationship she might be nervous or shy about you being at her place around her parents.
i still think it’s a maturity issue though
Maybe she is a serial killer and uses her house to hide the corpses…. hmmmmm xD Just kidding ^^
its not that you dont care its her way of letting you know she doesnt care
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GF help
My girlfriend won’t come over unless I ‘chase’ her. I’ve told her before that I care if she doesn’t come over but she doesn’t seem to get that. She always says “you don’t care” And every time she says that I remind her I do. I don’t get why I have to ‘chase’ her for her to just come over. Why can’t she just come over? Anyone have a insight?
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