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saskykitt
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Am I in the wrong here?

My boyfriend is 32 he works with games and he plays games. Thing is he has this friend that comes around two days in a row and spends the whole day with my boyfriend playing games. This guy even came around on Valentines Day and I am just freaking out that this guy is spending so much time at my boyfriends place. Is this situation normal? Is there a lot of guys his age that does this? Any advice will be nice, thank you.

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Thepp offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Boys of any age love playing games, if they are the sort of games that you can play then perhaps you could play some of them with him. I dont know if you are reading into this the right or the wrong way. I dont know the situation enough to give a view.

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Naska offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (38 minutes after post)

If you want to spend more time with him, then show him that. It’s not hard to pull a guys away from games. And yes it is normal.

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Stockton-on-Tees, N3, GB | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

have you ever seen the film YOU, ME AND DUPREE… it sounds alot like tat. just tell your boyfriend that as much as you like having the friend around, you feel you dnt spend as much time together anymore.. and you feel that the friend is getting in the way of you and him. gently but with persuasion ask if the friend can leave you two alone for a cople of days especially special days.

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