How should I approach this?
I hope this is the last post about her that I’ll ever make, and maybe the next time I post, it’ll be something happy and fun.
So in short, it’s a girl that I asked out, who rejected me. I’ll spare most of the details, since I don’t think they matter anymore. The only thing I’ll say is that she was nice in dealing with it, and wanted to know me better.
In my last post, I pretty much listed out all the reasons why I should not look back at her. And I look back at it daily to convince myself that I’m doing it right, and that it’s the best for me.
So it’s now down to, what do I do from here?
I still have feelings for her, regardless, and I’m waiting for those to die away. It’s hard though. How can I do it without coming across as rude?
What should I do when I begin to think of her?
And if by some freak chance she actually did like me, but was hiding it, is there any sure way to know?
No replies, so I’ll just put it out there - this is a “getting over a crush” post.
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How should I approach this?
I hope this is the last post about her that I’ll ever make, and maybe the next time I post, it’ll be something happy and fun.
So in short, it’s a girl that I asked out, who rejected me. I’ll spare most of the details, since I don’t think they matter anymore. The only thing I’ll say is that she was nice in dealing with it, and wanted to know me better.
In my last post, I pretty much listed out all the reasons why I should not look back at her. And I look back at it daily to convince myself that I’m doing it right, and that it’s the best for me.
So it’s now down to, what do I do from here?
I still have feelings for her, regardless, and I’m waiting for those to die away. It’s hard though. How can I do it without coming across as rude?
What should I do when I begin to think of her?
And if by some freak chance she actually did like me, but was hiding it, is there any sure way to know?
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