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Right, so theres this girl I love, Jody and I have loved her ever since i first saw her, no joke.

I was seeing her for 8 months but we split up due to her cheating on me. However she told everone i was cheating on her. So rumors went round but its forgotten now. few months passed i thought i got over her but obviously not. I still love her. She says she loves me to however, she loves lots of other lads aswell.
I never say anything as she will just say im in a mood. I cant say anything bad to her or she will say something nasty to me wich I can’t be bothered at. She has never done anything ncie for me yet I have spent over £4000 on her. She may or may not no it but still. All i ever do is compliment her yet she doesnt see how crazy i am
for her. I know im just probably talking crap to you but I just dont know what to do. My friends say forget her but I just cant :/ Help me?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t forget her, but she will continue to use you. Try to have a relationship with her without getting emotionally attached. That is all she will ever be able to give you.

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Dalek Karan offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Love is not a joke; one should be pitted for falling prey to slouch disabling emotion.
Life is hard enough without Love. We would all be better off without love, jealousy, and hate and of cause Revenge.

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cassidyflash1 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (52 minutes after post)

It sounds as though she doesn’t care about you anymore. I know it may be hard to forget her, but try to get involved with other things. Focus on your friends and family. If she can’t see you for who you really are, then she’s just not worth it. I know you love her, but slowly, day by day, push her out of your mind and then maybe it wouldn’t hurt as much. She doesn’t deserve you.

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moonlightsupper offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

I think you need to stop complimenting and spending too much on her in an effort to win her over. I agree she is using you and its great for her right now.

If she really wanted to be with you, she would be. Im sorry to say, she’s moved on to new ‘territories’ so don’t get stuck in the past. Its over, start looking after yourself, and detach as much as possible. Its not impossible. Good luck!

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