My friends think the guy im seeing is creepy?
I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month and none of my friends approve. Hes 21 and im 18. My friends don’t even really know him, but both their boyfriends went to high school with him and both think hes weird and kind of creepy. I’ve never seen that side of him though. He’s always so nice adorable around me.
I will admit that he has some problems though. He recently told me that he had really bad depression in high school and that he tried to kill himself. He says im the first person hes ever told that but Its hard for me to believe him because how could you not tell anyone that after so long. And supposedly one of my friends bfs already knew that so he had to have told somebody.
Then last night when we were hanging out with our friend nick, using the computer, a bunch of naked dirty pictures popped up. They looked like they could of been him with some girl but i didn’t get a good look. When i confronted him about it later he told me he didn’t know what i was talking about and that he would check. Then he said he found them under his little brothers (whose 14) ipod uploads and that they were his porn.
I’m not sure if i should believe him or not. I feel like he’s lying to me but I also have trust issues. He seemed very genuine when he said that they were not his. But I really don’t know if i should believe him. My friends say they think hes lying to me and there’s no way they could be his little brothers pictures. They say he’s unstable and bipolar and not a good guy to get into a relationship with. Even though he’s already been in plenty of long lasting relationships. All their opinions come from what they’ve heard from other people saying. None of these people have a close relationship with him like i’m forming. I’ll admit hes different but he doesn’t seem like a bad guy. Maybe i’m just blinded to whats actually going on because I like him..
Should i be worried about whats been happening? Is this something only time will tell..?
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