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Ok, make a final cut! What else!
Leave him and go ahead.

Time. :) Give this relationship little more time.
Tell him the truth what it’s feel like when he blame you. if he didn’t care again ..go with Zirbel advice.

Perhaps the two of you just aren’t a good match. If there’s storm and stress in your relationship, that’s a good sign that you aren’t suited to one another. It doesn’t mean that one of you is a bad person–it just means that you aren’t a good match for one another!

If he’s not a good match for you, then you should break it off. Fact is, Tharu, that men are less discriminating about possible lifemates than are women. Men are much more likely to “settle,” particularly if the woman is pretty or sexy. But the woman may not feel that the guy’s character and qualities are a good complement to hers.

When it comes to deciding if the couple is a good match, the best judge is usually the woman, because she simply looks at more things than the man does!

I take it this is the same guy who has been disrespectful, drunk and taking your money?

You have been too good to him, no wonder he is over-reacting now. He is manipulating you, using blame and telling you he loves you and doesn’t want to leave you. Don’t listen to him and don’t fall for it. He is acting like a child because is worried you really are going to leave him.

Based on the information you provided previously, there is really nothing to re-consider. He is still the same and you need to stick to your decision. Unless of course you are happy to put up with the way he treats you…..

break up with him already!

if he is blaming u for everything, than clearly he isnt a good match for you…

move on… and dont let his tmp ‘i love you’ and ‘am sorry’ get to you, remember its all bullsh!t…

your boyfriend is just that, a boy. He is not capable of understanding a relationship with a girl or having respect for a female. Maybe that’s his culture or how he was brought up, to not respect a woman. But how old are you 2 anyway? this is definitely something you should politely get away from, now that you told him once, you see how he acts like crybaby don’t leave me but then 2 days he is right back to disrespect and meanness. He is playing on your love for him, and has no respect for girls, women. You have to put love for yourself first. He will always hurt you,