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My Daughter passed away at the age of 7 months, she

was born prematurely at 26 weeks and was 1.05kg, she did so well and grew all the way but somehow out of the blue she would litterly turn black and would stop brathing, we had to learn to do cpr after a cpr session she would look at me with the most painfull look and she would cry the most painfull cry, it honts me every day, she wasnt a sick child where you can say she wouldnt have made it or it was gonna happen eventually she was actually like a normal little angle happy and naughty etc. i was told by docters that it was from very difficult to impossible for me to have children and than she came out of the blue my little miricle and now shes gone. I cant deal with it i feel like i cant go on and her last month of pain honts me every day, i know i am suppose to feel like she is in a better place and happy and i know she is but some how it doesnt seem to help me ease the pain at all

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

mourning isn’t easy. give yourself time and allow yourself to feel whatever it is you’re feeling- there’s no right or wrong here, regardless of what others tell you. try a support group, sometimes it helps to be with others who have experienced the same.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 hours, 15 minutes after post)

You have suffered a great trauma–literally the worst we can know. I don’t have any magic words to relieve your pain and anguish, except these:

“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” Revelation 21:4

I could not have gotten through my own anguish without God. I cannot explain why certain things happen in this world the way that they do, but I have learned to trust God. I believe that He will literally destroy death and hell and restore our loved ones to us, and us to them.

If I did not believe that, nothing in this world would make any sense.

I pray that God will comfort you and that you will accept His reassurance that the day is truly coming when all tears will be wiped away.

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