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It doesn’t mention love haha, but it does have hearts / flowers all around it.

If that’s the case, then sure, give it to her. So long as it isn’t too serious or anything.

Yeah, I just don’t want to push her away or anything.

If she overreacts to a simple card, then frankly she isn’t worth your time. If you want to give her a valentine’s day card, then give it to her. No use in pretending that you are someone you aren’t. As long as you think the card is appropriate for where you are in the relationship, then give it to her. I am one of the least romantic girls you’ll ever meet, but if some guy I liked gave me a valentine’s day card (as long as it was not too emotional or serious and as long as the word ‘love’ made no appearance in it), then I’d be perfectly fine with that.

The card says, “Sure wish I could show up on your doorstep instead of in your mailbox!” Since she’s currently away. I think it’s sweet but again I’m not too sure.

i think that sounds sweet and friendly. before my bf and i were official, he would send me things like that. it was really nice. no pressure, but just showing me he thought i was special and he cared. :)

Thanks. :) I’m still debating lol. I think it’s sweet, but after the talk about don’t rush (we had a nice conversation) I feel it may be over the top. Otherwise I COULD wait until June (since Valentine’s Day is in June in Brazil where she’s from) just to give it time.