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Intelligence coupled with a slim body is usually a insta-win in my generation.

Oh bullocks. Stop with this my generation grabage.

Look,each and every guy is different. For example my best friend has a thing for “thick” redheads. Me personally,can’t stand em.

Some men like slender girls,some like em thick. Some guys like strong women, other guys like the meek ones.

It is different for each and every guy out there, so theres no way to really pigeonhole anything into a general response on this topic.

Now,if you are a guy asking this question then you know what you like…if this is a girl, stop trying to conform to what you think guys will ‘like’. They should like you for being you….that’s what guys really like. You being yourself. Nothing is a bigger dealbreaker than meeting a girl,likeing her for who she is, only to find out she aint really who she says she is. I dealt with this recently and it ended a great relationship because she put on this entire act to get me interested then once she got comfortable with me, she slipped back into her REAL self and OMG…I hated that person.

I suspect this is a girl asking so let me drop a nugget of wisdom on you.

BE YOURSELF!

If a guy doesn’t like you for being yourself…then exactly when do you think he will like you?

Let your own personality shine through and you will find what you are looking for.

Good Luck!

Hey, I was just giving my input as how I experience it. It doesn’t mean that my answer is representative of the whole.

And at least in my school, this seems to be how it goes. All the slim cute girls with good grades have boyfriends and are insanely popular, while anyone outside of that stereotype is pretty much left to rot.

I do however agree that if you are yourself, that proves to be infinitely more attractive than pretending to be who you aren’t.

When it’s right, your relationship will feel like putting on your most comfortable pair of shoes. Nothing will feel forced, artificial, contrived or strained. You won’t feel the need to walk on eggshells. You won’t have to worry about doing or saying the wrong thing. It will feel right because it IS right!

Anyone you have to pursue will require a level of effort and energy that you cannot sustain.

Yes, be yourself. When the right guy comes along, you will feel like you’ve known him for all of your life.

Oh, one last thing. Don’t look for the bad boys–in fact, they will come looking for you. And if you select a bad boy over a good boy, the good boys will disappear from your life like rabbits disappear from a hunter!

every guy is different but most common ones are probably good sized breasts, nice butt, slim stomach, pretty eyes and smile, cute face, for the most part relatively long hair, no acne, laid back easy going, funny, caring and nice and probably a girl who likes sports and wants to have fun. not a **** but a girl who is not a prude, not hairy uhmmm these is a very complex question when i think about it

Yup,hence why I said it depends on the guy. There are sooooo many factors involved between looks and personality and behaviors. In my Psych class we read some case studies about this exact same topic and after interviewing thousands of men…there was no one defining factor that stood out, well at least not enough to be conclusive.

exactly. its really complex. my advice. be who you are and be friendly. youll find someone

Second that advice!