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Cross-Dressing and Other Forms of Expression in School

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Virginia school district considers ban on cross-dressing. Hot potato!!!

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BigWilly! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 51 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I’ve experienced my pants falling off before.. generally a woman involved though.

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Rosabella offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

The Suffolk School Board studied the proposal at a meeting Thursday night, but members did not vote on it. The proposal explicitly bans “clothing worn by a student that is not in keeping with a student’s gender and causes a disruption and/or distracts others from the educational process or poses a health or safety concern.”
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The American Civil Liberties Union of Virginia said that, rather than banning the “nonconforming behavior,” schools should instead address the bullying or harassment. In a letter to the school board, Rebecca Glenberg, legal director of the ACLU of Virginia, called the gender-related dress restriction “unlawful and unfair to students.”
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The fact that the proposed ban on cross-dressing is included in a dress code that would also prohibit short skirts and sagging pants suggests that administrators believe students who cross dress are trying to be provocative, Ehrensaft said. Those are apples and oranges, she added, saying that cross-dressing is a “healthy variation on gender” that shouldn’t be policed.
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Along with banning clothing “not in keeping with a student’s gender,” the Suffolk proposal aims to prohibit “sexually suggestive or revealing attire,” spandex, ripped clothes, sagging pants, short skirts, sleepwear, open-toed shoes, sunglasses, head coverings unless worn for religious or medical purposes, and clothes advertising alcohol or illegal substances.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Appropriate dress is an obsession with schools. One reasn I enjoy lecturing rather than teaching is that I don’t have to remind kids to straighten their tie or take of Jewelry. Does wearing a standard uniform really aid concentration? Probably not. But then school is not aboutr that, its about teaching students to obey authority.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

While I do think that schools should have dress codes and provocative clothing should not be allowed, I think that the government has no right to assign clothing to particular genders. Where is the line drawn? Is a girl who wears men’s trousers cross dressing? What about a boy who wears a gold chain with a small pendant? It is really a matter of taste, not gender.

It is generally obvious when a student is dressing to be disruptive, and the teachers and school administrators need to be given the right to act in those cases, however, an all-encompassing law is going overboard.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Nonsense is what I think of the proposed law. As other posters have said it’s going to far; a government has no right to impede on a person’s fashion, as long as it’s within reasonable guidelines. If a guy wants to wear makeup, wigs and wear feminine clothing, he should be able to. Just as a woman wearing manly clothes and cutting their hair short should be allowed to.

More importantly, why are they focusing on this issue that is non-important rather than hammering down on schools that are either already teaching creationism or ‘intelligent design’ or pushing for these materials to be part of the school curriculum? That’s much more important, and relevent, and actually matters. Sigh.

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Cross-Dressing, Pants-Falling-Off, and Other Forms of “Expression”

http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/201...
Virginia school district considers ban on cross-dressing

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Cross-Dressing and Other Forms of Expression in School

http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/201...
Virginia school district considers ban on cross-dressing

What do YOU think?

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days, 15 hours after post)

i thought cross dressing was already banned based on the fact that boys have one uniform and girls have another uniform. maybe they should just make gender-neutral uniforms.

i think the intentions are probably well-meaning but misguided. they should be addressing bullying in the school, rather than the dress code.

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