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I met this girl online, and we really hit it off from our messages.

We started to text…and are still hitting it off. The only thing is, it’s been about 20 days of texting…usually at least 15 text per day. It’s fine, but nothing is happening towards actually meeting each other. She’ll say come visit me…and then say she’s kidding. She’ll say she’s working…and she’s going to have time off soon. Just this morning I got a good morning text from her. We’re both girls, so this is completely new to me. Advice?

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mintra offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Sometimes virtual is best kept virtual, at least for a while

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Are you two at least on your own and able to afford to see each other? (Basically are you two old enough?)

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1 year, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

She’s 19 and I’m 22. We both go to college and are about 40 minutes apart.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

She may not be ready then, some people are actively looking for love, some are actively looking for friends to share things with. Sounds like your getting the latter.

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