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I don’t know what to do.

I love my fiance so much. I love him more than anything, it hurts. But he treats me so poorly. Everything I say, everything I do, he gets angry at me for and starts an argument and then I’m left feeling horrible about myself. I don’t even like talking to him or being around him anymore. But I want things to work. I really do. I’ve never loved somebody so much…

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altex offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Two words: Couples Counseling. If he loves you as much as you love him, then he should realize there is a problem and be willing to try anything to make it work. Whatever you do, don’t allow yourself to be in an abusive relationship! Whether the abuse is physical or emotional….respect yourself at least as much as you respect him, and don’t allow yourself to be treated any differently. I’m sorry if that’s not what you wanted to hear. Good luck, my friend!

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IrAdler offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 hours, 23 minutes after post)

What do you like about him that you say you love him? By him treating you poorly? By him arguing with you and gets angry at you and then leaves you there to the dogs without apologizing? By you not wanting to talk to him and be with him anymore? By you want things to work but he is not interested? By him treating you disrespectfully? What do you love about him so much?

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