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Love survey

What is love in your own definition?
A feelin in which everything
On earth was made off of, the
Strongest feelin there is and
Ever will be
Have you ever been in love?
Yes, twice
What does love feel like to you?
It is a feelin that makes u feel happy when u r miserable
Do you believe in love at first sight?
No, not anymore…never again
Do you believe in true love?
No, not anymore until provin
Otherwise
Have you ever been heartbroken?
Yeah twice
Have you ever told someone you loved them?
Yeah and i wish i never did
If so, how did they take it? she smiled and said she liked me but i was “too late” and she ended up stayin wit her bf
Love is?
Foolishness
Wat is the worse thing about love?
The mental struggle to move o if it doesnt work out
Wat is the worse thing from love you have ever encountered(if that sounded right)?
Sit next to her and listen to her tell her boyfriend she loves him, give those lil kisses on da phone, hearin “i promise to call you tonight”, and seein da smile he puts on her face, da smile i once put on it before he came in, o and also not talkin to her as often as i use to really hurts
What was the one or two things that hurt you the most about your love?
The day she told me she had a boyfriend, that was the day i was goin to ask her out cause we had spent the entire day together and if it was a good one i was askin her that night. the other thing is like i said before hearin her say and do all these things wit da guy that i ( eventhough i hate to say it) envy.
If you could go back in time and change one thing about your love what would it be?
I would go back and ask her alot earlier and not have waited
What have you learned about love?
It is a pain that only feels good when the other gives it back
Say something to your love?
I wish i could go back and do it over, u r still the most beautiful thing i have ever seen in my life, your eyes make me smile just thinkin about them, your smile lights up me inside, your skin is as soft as air, u r a 20 out of 10 in every category, i always thought u were my angle sent from god to turn me back into the happy person i once was, if u were i am sorry to god for missin my chance, and to u i am sorry i could not have been better as a friend and as your other half. i still feel that u complete me thats why i cant let u go…
You dont have to answer this but who is your love?
Caught me completely off guard wit dis one…but i am in love wit kyme, i’d do anything god could let me do for her even more, i am sorry kyme, be happy wit him, i just gotta try to move on…

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Leirbag offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Love? Love is something you give. Its great if its given to you but, if not, still give.

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kalevolive offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Bloomfield, MI, US | 2 years, 8 months ago (9 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Love is a choice. Feelings of elation often accompany it, but they are not love by themselves. The truest love isn’t loving someone for what they can do for you, but choosing to love them completely independently of their actions. As for pain, pain is an integral part of love. Most people don’t understand this. Most people think that pain is a bad thing that comes with love, and when they say that love is pain they mean that they think it is hopeless to try to get love without getting the bad pain that comes with it. However, the existence of pain is central to love. If there was no such thing as sacrifice or loss, love would be meaningless. Anyone could say they loved anyone without any risk or cost to it, and there would be no way to show it. Without pain, love would just be people acting for their own selfish wants and calling it love, since there was no way they could lose. It is losing or the risk of it that gives value to the act of taking that risk. Betting on someone winning a race is a vote of confidence, but only if there are others racing or there is some way you can lose if they don’t win. With love, choosing to love someone, knowing full well that you may get hurt, is what gives that act value. It says “I am willing to take that risk for you”. The truth is that pain isn’t the failure of love, but the proof that it was true.

BANCHEE offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sudbury, ON, CA | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

sorry i am not in love,was once but he still doesnt know or know what love is or how to give or take it,rather relationship challenge he was lol

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gemmybob90 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Stockton-on-Tees, N3, GB | 2 years, 8 months ago (5 days after post)

love hurts no matter what side you are on.. the giving, the taking, the hidden the displayed, the friends, the family, the losing, the gaining…there are so many ways to get hurt in love. we long for it, without knowing what it is, when we have it, we don’t know what to do with it, whe we lose it, we feel like dying. love sucks, love’s great. you cant sum it up with words but you can have a **** good try.
who ever you are, love is something you give to get back in return. again its great to recieve but its better to give. almost every day someone you know will look at you and think ‘ i love her/him’.
keeping loving guys

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leostephanie_on offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (3 weeks after post)

love is difficult

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nezzy_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

love is too powerful thats why sometimes you get overwelmed with it.. but it is the greatest gift god can give you. when you have it dont let it go.

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rikky_hasting offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (1 year, 10 months after post)

I dunno if im in love xD
I really really like this girl, i think about her every minute of everyday, i’d do anything to keep her happy, i love talking to her.. which is like all the time.
She doesnt know i love her, 1 of my friends say we’re in love, we just joke around saying “yeah, cuz i love myy -her name-”.
once we talked, and it was about this girl i really liked and always thought about, and she talked about this guy she thought about 24/7 and that he was really special. i kept asking her and eventually she said it was me, that was like 1/2 months ago tho, things can change in that time? i think im in love with her.
i’ve known her 9 months xD
we text eachother all the time, i’ve spent £200 texting her and for her its about the same amount, we both said it was worth it….
few nights ago i was talking to her on msn saying no one could like me in a bf way for who i am, and she said “if you say that again ima have to come over there and hit you”, i kept saying “i know its true, so can we change subject” .. then she said “no, im not giving up until you agree” the i said “well i dont say things like that for no reason, so it has to have some truth in it” and she said “well i like you for who you are. always have. always will.” so whats it mean? she still likes me?

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BANCHEE offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sudbury, ON, CA | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

Well said gemmybob90

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t.coltri offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (2 years, 2 months after post)

this is my love
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