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I need some opinions on this.
My girlfriend of 3 years will not allow me to come to her apartment, or be around her roommate (a lifelong girl friend of hers). In fact she tells me “I don’t want to be around you with ANYONE except family”. It always seems like she sets me up for no-win situations too. She told me that she always has to drive to see me (we live 30 minutes apart, which was her choice by the way, we lived closer before), yet when I say I’ll come to her apartment she won’t let me! What am I supposed to do? I ask her “why is it bad?” and she only says “it makes me uncomfortable”. So I say “why does it make you uncomfortable, because I don’t want to be around you with anyone else” She never answers my questions directly, she always says something else. She doesn’t feel like she has to explain herself deeply. What am i supposed to do???? I love her but this is making me depressed!!!
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