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i told her, now what should i do?

well we’ve been best friends since about half of the last year until now, when we first became best friends i loved her she loved me but after a few days i didnt like her much but now i do even more than i did before, anyways she asked me to say the truth if i like her or not, i said “of course i do but when we first became best friends i didnt like you much but now i love you even more than before!” she said thankyou but she looked so dam sad now what should i do please tell me im scared if she starts to hate me or something

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Tymbus offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Never tell people the truth! LOL. What I mean is she was looking for reassurance, not the truth. “yeah actually now you ask me to compare you to Cameron Diaz, you aren’t really as beautiful as she is”. Clown! Buy her chocolates and hope that by the time she’s reached the unloved coconut and almond praline she will have forgotten your words.

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striker190 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (28 minutes after post)

:D I don`t think that what Tymbus sayed had much advice, but he is right sadly. I de suggest you to show her how you trully feel by talking to her about that same question, tell her that you lied that you didn`t liked her at the begining( i know it`s hard to lie to her, but you screwed up). Tell her that you didn`t know what you were saying and ask for another chanse. Atleast thats what in a movie happend :D Lemonade Mouth, scott and naomi ( i think was her name)

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

if you want to impress or cheer up a girl, you have to sweep her off her feet. there are many little things that make a girl blush and feel happy. flowers, notes, chocolates, any sentimental surprises. if you want to be with her and bring that smile back to her face, then go all out.

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

You deflated her when you let her know that you weren’t immediately enthralled by her. Now you have lost ground to make up. Take Ozy’s advice and do something nice for her.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Dont listen to these people. The truth is all that matters, she asked for the truth and you gave it. You did good :-) I wish more people had your courage

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