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hi,I am girl in love with someone who has told lies about his studies to impress me.

After I stopped talking to him he started disclosing our personal things. But he wants to marry me and my parents dislike him. What should I do?

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ongminato offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (58 minutes after post)

if you really think it’s worth it then go for it. But remember to think first if you’re really happy with that person and if he can make you happy in the long haul.

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karen conlon offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

if you feel it is right and you are very happy go for it it doesnt matter what your parents think about him its not them going to marry him they wil have to get used to it be careful if he has lied to you before he might do it again good luck all the best
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hi,I am girl in love with someone who has told lies about his studies to impress me.After I stopped talking to him he started disclosing our personal things.But he wants to marry me and my parents dislike him.What should I do?

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Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 3 years, 4 months ago (4 hours, 26 minutes after post)

At the first sentance, I would have said “let it go”. Lots of people lie about things that, in the long run, don’t matter. His education, if you’re into each other, really isn’t going to make a big difference in life.

However, after the second sentance you got me worried. See, you reacted to finding out he lied by not talking to him for a bit — perfectly reasonable. So what does he do when HE’S in the wrong? He turns around and starts bad mouthing you? How is that right or fair! That would be a warning sign to you.

Unless you meant he started divulging other personal things about himself to you that he had … washed over … previously. If that’s the case, consider this a good thing — your better off knowing him before marrying than after.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (4 hours, 47 minutes after post)

He doesn’t sound like much of a catch.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (6 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Everyone has lied at some point in their life. It does not make it right, but it happens. What disturbs me is the fact that he would disclose personal information about you…that speaks VOLUMES about his character. You deserve a man who will be honest, has morals, integrity and has character, this man has none of them.

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IN | 3 years, 4 months ago (23 hours, 4 minutes after post)

I have send some more information about him please read it Boats2Build,Mikey,Karen Conlon.send me more advices your advices helped me a lot.THANKS A LOT ALL OF U.

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