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this is a question for all the guys out there.

so your dating this girl and shes your first girlfriend and youve been together for about 3 months. and because of personal issuses she brakes up with you and after about hmm idk 5 months one of her friends messages you telling you that she still loves you, what do you do? what would you feel? would you just ignore the girl and act like you hate her?

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mintra offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

No need to act like you hate her, If you liked her ask her out, be prepared for personal issues again, but we all get them.

Dont bother if you dont like her or if getting with her blocks other opportunities you have in the pipeline which you preffer

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

1. Why bother acting like you hate her? That’s extremely immature.
2. Analyze your own feelings rather than asking others how you should feel.
3. If you still love her too, I’d suggest you give it another try!

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1 year, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

unfortionletly im the girl in this story and am still completly in love with him and i just wanted to get a guys opinion on the subject

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MortallyWounded offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

If the guy is acting like he hates you then hard as it may be you will need to just move on and forget him. You can find a better guy.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 44 minutes after post)

Ask her why she broke up with you in the first place and then ask why she wants to get back together.
If the both of you are young, then sometimes the urge to ‘explore’ is irresistable.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

BIG AL ONE wrote:
Ask her why she broke up with you in the first place and then ask why she wants to get back together.
If the both of you are young, then sometimes the urge to ‘explore’ is irresistable.

My thoughts exactly. Be careful though. Once things have gone wrong, it is very VERY easy for the relationship to sink again unless your problems are properly sorted out.

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