school help: My ex boyfriend had a small weeny and I still loved him. - Help.com

To disparage him will not bring him back to you, priss!

By all means. Just be prepared to explain how you know. And then be prepared for the boys to all avoid you like the plague, because they will see you as vengeful person who will lash out the first time something doesn’t go her way.

By the way, if you ever loved anyone, you never try to hurt that person.

I don’t want him back, I just want to get even.

j.larso wrote:
I don’t want him back, I just want to get even.

Two wrongs don’t make a right.

hm, i don’t see the point. you feel bad, sure, and you don’t want him back/don’t care what he does so…why? if both liked each other and enjoyed your time together no time was lost(imo). if your relationship was hell then it was about time you broke up. i’d think the act of ‘telling’ ppl he had a small penis would be more odd than anything.

Should I tell all the girls at school that he has a small weenie to get back at him?

Only do this if he knows nothing which shames you.
Just because he is now your ex dose not mean you must slag him down, just be lucky you found out you were not right for each other before you hitched up and had kids.

And he could spread a rumor that he broke up with you because you had VD. Or he could concoct some kind of disgusting image about your own “junk.” You could end up being ostracized by your peers.

In any event, what you proposed is mean-spirited and vindictive. And guess what? Guys don’t want to date vindictive girls.

I’m not a vindictive type of person. It just so happens that he hurt me very badly. If that will help you understand that I am a very good person.

We are “good” if our actions are good, if our heart is in the right place. Hurting others, even if they have hurt us, sullies ourselves and detracts from our own goodness.

True love bears hurts and disappointments and betrayals. If you ever loved anyone, you will not deliberately try to hurt that person. It’s as simple as that. You don’t have to stay with someone who hurts you, and you shouldn’t. But leaving an abusive person and going out to deliberately harm him are two different things.

It sounds like you deeply resent him. And what is resentment? Resentment is like drinking a cup of poison and then waiting for the other person to die.

j.larso wrote:
I’m not a vindictive type of person. It just so happens that he hurt me very badly. If that will help you understand that I am a very good person.

I was under the impression that very nice people felt that petty revenge was beneath them…

I said I’m a very good person, i didn’t say I was perfect. Even the very good have lapses sometimes

don’t make this one of them :) - Its not worth it

If you be nice as you say, then all it will do is make you feel guilty and regretful. Just move on and forget about him