Love help: Is the guy that you love really worth the risk?

jenice

Is the guy that you love really worth the risk?

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I asked my parents if i can go on a date with this guy that i really like mom said yes and dad said no…i decided to go anyway…i went nd i had the best time of my life..now there are a lot of reprocations nd my parents hate me now more than ever…me nd my bf keep fighting..nd im really thinking was he worth getting in trouble for….i was contemplating that all weekend nd my answer everytime was yes he is worth it…bu today in school i ws using my friends phone nd i ws lukin at her messages(i kno he used to try to tlk to her already but i didnt know it was tht serious) there was sum really touchy stuff in there and it ended around the time me nd him started tlking..now im thinking does this boy really lve me or does he fall too quick too easily?

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

So you are already having second thoughts about him and you just went out? What was the point? Just to make your dad mad? It seems like you fall too quick too easily.

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jenice 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

my dad has absolutely nothing to do with my relationship…he has never contributed to my life so he wouldnt phase me in any particular way…i am having second thoughts because im just the jealous type nd i always over analyze things…i do tend to fall too quick but this guy is different nd idk y im being jealous

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

So what did he say to your friend that you are jealous about? It is kind of strange he went from hitting on your friend to you.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Only if he loves you back.

jenice 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

well its like this…i ws single he ws single…my friend ws telling me abt him one nite nd how she thought we would be perfect for eachother becuz were so much alike..but yet so different…she is the one who initially hooked us up…she has no feelings for him whatsoever..but from the texts he ws sending her he ws head over heels for her…d im thinking how can he just jump out of being in love with her..to eing in love with me

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jenice 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Only if he loves you back.

he was soo quick to say he loves me…which is weird

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Mork 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Oh yeah he’s probably playing you lol.

jenice 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

o0o0o wrote:
Oh yeah he’s probably playing you lol.

definately not what i wanted to hear…nd he isnt he isnt tht type

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A-Cortex 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Sorry Jenice. I have to agree with the above. This guy sounds like a player.

The only reason I can think of that a guy would say “I love you” straight off the bat from wanting someone else, is to get something.

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jenice 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

he not asking for that..i guess its becuz ur hearing oeside of the story and u dnt kno him like i do but he not tht type of guy

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 hours, 21 minutes after post)

It is still weird if he was telling the other girl he loved her too. Did he say that to her when she didn’t even like him? I don’t think he knows what love is yet.

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IrAdler 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Yes jenice you have to listen to your guts. This guy is jumping from one girl to the next and he is head over hills with them all. The only thing he is head over hills is being in love the word love. He has a lot of growing up to do but in the meantime don’t waste yours on guys like this.

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