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I feel so stupid for liking a guy ?

I’ve always been a person who has never been interested in romantic relationships. I’m very focused on my studies and I excel academically and also at extra-curricular activities. I’ve always told myself I will not like a guy so deeply, especially if it were to disrupt my thoughts. There’s this guy I know, let’s call him A. We’re very close and whenever I’m with him I laugh and have a great time. When I don’t see him for 3 days I feel really lonely and I can’t stop thinking about him. Now whenever I talk to him, I feel sad as I know he won’t like me ( don’t ask why ) . I feel like those moronic girls who only think about boys and cry over them. Am I stupid for crying over this ? How do I get over him ?

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

yea i felt stupid too(and it probably is, haha), all tho i don’t think i ever cried over anyone. not sure how to get over it either, maybe if you treat it like a break up(erase him from you life completely).

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eatpieam offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

You’re not stupid for liking a guy; it’s a natural part of life.
Talk to him about how you feel.
Maybe getting it off your chest will settle your mind?

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Why should you get over him?
Imbrue with this feelings which are new for you!

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desertgalleon offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Is he gay? GF? GF & he’s gay? :)

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1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Have you tried slapping him around like a cartoon character?

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

lol wow… :D

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secret_summer offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (15 hours, 26 minutes after post)

no gf, he isn’t gay LOL

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