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hi, i am sorry to bother anyone here with some selfish thought i guess…
my problem is that, i feel like i am a totally selfish spoiled person, and i don’t like to help people even when they are in need, like this morning, a roommate lost her cell phone, i was asked to give mine to let her call her family to inform the tragedy. but i didn’t want to, i just didn’t care to help her. because maybe i remember all the **** things she did to me when i was wanting the help from her, and she’s always mean… but besides all that, i should’ve helped! but the thought was that, every time, a person asked me for help, i was always wondering how much it’s going to cost me of helping, and how not grateful he/she is, and how bad he/she is to me sometimes, or just why would i help? i get nothing from it… and i don’t like to share with people at all… so, i know it sounds so sympathetically selfish to everyone, and i really want to get rid of this horrible ‘personality’, i don’t know what can i do to make me realize it feels good to help people… help me. :/
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