I’m seeing my friend’s ex on a daily basis and I’m falling for him.
When my ex-boyfriend and me where still together we hanged all the time with this other couple, the guy was a good friend of my ex, and the girl became one of my best friends as well. All this lasted 5 years, until both relationships ended almost at the same time (last year).
My girl friend is now living in another country and my ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, while this guy is dating someone. I am the only one still single.
Recently I started a project with this guy (the ex of my friend!) and I am seeing him regulary. The project makes us being alone lots of hours and we talk about stuff and feel some kind of conexion since we know each other stories pretty well. He also supports me and encourages me with the things Im doing which is super important to me.
Thing is Ive started to fall for him and I think he also have second thoughts. He even suggested we should move together to save money (we both used to live with our ex’s and now me and him live alone) and tells me he’s lonely, that he feels his girl is not really there for him.
I was tempted to say “yes, move in Im lonely too”, but I think of my friend (his ex) and it will hurt her a lot and she will get so mad. Then I would also have to deal with my ex bf again since theyre still friends.
Please I dont know what to do. I dont want to be a third wheel between him and his new girl, I dont want to hurt my friend and I dont want to see my ex again, but I cant help feelling like this! :( I also dont want to quit this project since it means a lot to me personally. What should I do please help!
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