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Is she upset at me for not likeing her?
Or is it something else?
well i’m a 2nd year college student. i have known this girl for over a year now so we’re already friends.
A few weeks ago she was acting all giddy toward me. Smiling and laughing and coming into my room to talk(I live right across the bathroom). My roommate thought that she liked me, but I disagreed saying she’s just being nice.
She was giddy until last week. Then she turned cold. I asked her if I insulted her and she said she was stressed from midterms/homework.
This week she’s still a little bit cold, but not like last week. She’s not smiling or laughing when I talk to her(then again I haven’t made any jokes since I’m stressed with school). But with everybody else she’s laughing and smiling all over the place except for me.
She’s made me confused. I don’t like her at the moment because I had a crush on her last year. I wouldn’t mind dating her though. What should I do to solve the problem? I want her to be the giddy person I knew a few weeks ago. My roommate still thinks she likes me, but she’s not showing it.
Right now I think she’s upset at me for not responding well to her flirting. How can I get her back? I think I might like her, again.
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