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Is she upset at me for not likeing her?

Or is it something else?

well i’m a 2nd year college student. i have known this girl for over a year now so we’re already friends.

A few weeks ago she was acting all giddy toward me. Smiling and laughing and coming into my room to talk(I live right across the bathroom). My roommate thought that she liked me, but I disagreed saying she’s just being nice.

She was giddy until last week. Then she turned cold. I asked her if I insulted her and she said she was stressed from midterms/homework.

This week she’s still a little bit cold, but not like last week. She’s not smiling or laughing when I talk to her(then again I haven’t made any jokes since I’m stressed with school). But with everybody else she’s laughing and smiling all over the place except for me.

She’s made me confused. I don’t like her at the moment because I had a crush on her last year. I wouldn’t mind dating her though. What should I do to solve the problem? I want her to be the giddy person I knew a few weeks ago. My roommate still thinks she likes me, but she’s not showing it.

Right now I think she’s upset at me for not responding well to her flirting. How can I get her back? I think I might like her, again.

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eosneva offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Hi :)
maybe try reciprocating the way that she was behaving before - ie. seek her out and go say hi/chat in her room, etc. Then if she’s just stressed about work she will appreciate the gesture and company, and if she’s hurt then hopefully making an effort to talk to her will show her that you are interested.. Hope this helps :)

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caroline offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Maybe try to make an effort to make her laugh and flirt around some. If she keeps acting cold and harsh even after flirting from your end and midterms, she probably doesn’t like you. If she flirts back and starts giggling again then maybe ask her out. But don’t ask her out unless you like her!

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