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So I can’t focus on anything because so much is happening.

My friends have split up. They won’t talk to me anymore, and when they do, it’s just small talk. All they do is talk to each other about silly things, like hot guys and One Direction. I’m not even kidding–that’s ALL they talk about. I can’t talk to them anymore…they’re so different. And then the ‘head’ of this second group of my friends who is separating from me and another friend of mone–yeah, she’s got a crush on the guy I’ve loved for about ten months. And she hasn’t ev. told me because she doesn’t trust me enough. I’m just so upset and sad that all of this has made me really distracted from everything that’s important. I just don’t know what to do…
Also, I depend on one of these friends on a ride to and from school…
And the rest of them are really important to me…but. they haven’t been good friends lately…
To make matters worse, they call me whiny. I’m trying to solve the problem NOW so that I don’t just need to complain about it.
Which is why I’ve decided to ask for help….

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linuxya offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

THe problem is you are way too dependent on other people.

Concentrate on making new friends all the time. Stop depending on other people to make you feel loved and important and part of a group.

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Z-Anonymous offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

that must hurt to have people who are friends…call you whiny. are you complaining about the same things everyday?

are you trying to tell them that you don’t like the changes? Sounds like they are happy with the changes. so you either need to go along with the group or find friends who are more like where you are now. Good luck to you.

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