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Why is my boyfriend starting to use my nickname and not my real name anymore?


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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Oh! That’s because he’s comfortable with you. Like a glove, or old shoe.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

old shoe….you must know a woman never wants to hear that

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Thanks for the help guys it really means alot :D

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

trinity wrote:
old shoe….you must know a woman never wants to hear that

. . .but she will, if she wants to hear the truth.
A man must maintain respect and consideration for his girl at all times. Sure, we like to call our gals by pet names and nicknames, but the fact is, the women in our lives have real names. And when we forget that, it’s a sign we have lost respect.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (35 minutes after post)

i love that you just called her an old shoe. tsk… Big Al sure knows how to treat a lady… ;P joookes but yeah it’s probably a catchy name that he’s gotten used to. a term of endearment.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

He might not know how you feel about it. When people use my name, I recognize it but my eyes glaze over and I don’t talk to them as much, it’s like they called me an alien. Maybe I’ll tell people that someday.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Cause he adores you and wants to reflect how close he is to you.

Its a good thing really but if you don’t like your nickname, just tell him- nicely.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (8 hours, 29 minutes after post)

it’s usually a sign of affection. many couples have nicknames for each other. :)

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