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Ex girlfriend..

We broke up in Jan. The last time
We saw or talked was in feb. After we broke up I had blocked her on fb and the last time I saw her she also dropped her phone in my car so she made a new account to get her phone back I sent her a few fb msgs didn’t get a reply till a month later, of no contact. Jus out of the blue she responded to my last fb msg a last week . And now the past week we’ve fb msging each other almost everyday. She even skyped me and talked long. She would ask me how I was etc. She even asked
Me to drive over to grab my shirt that she still had so I did we had a lil fun chase her around in the snow tossed each other in etc. Dont know why but I asked her for change and all she had was 9 bucks so she just gave it to me.
After we broke up she wanted to remain friends.
My question is, is she still trying to be friends or does she want more?

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LostinParis offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Why did you guys break up?

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LoneWolf. offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

It was a misunderstanding, she thought I was getting bored of her but I wasnt

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LostinParis offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Go for it. I think she misses you and might be open to trying it again.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

So should I tell her I miss
Her? I wouldn’t know how to go about it, what would I say or do?

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LostinParis offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Whatever you do tell her in person and be open and honest with her. If she doesn’t want to have a relationship again then at least you know and you can figure the next step of your life.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Sounds good, thanks. But how do you know? I know she’s a
Friendly type. Shortly after we split I told her after I missed her and she would say it but back I can picture her
As a
Person who would say it first. She always told me
She didn’t like
Talking about that she wasn’t good at showing It she would jus sit there and
Listen.

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LostinParis offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

I don’t know. And neither will you until you talk to her about it. I take it as a good sign she is talking to you. Either continue talking to her and not bring anything up until weeks down the road or just ask her what she see’s in her relationship to you whether that being friendship or more.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours after post)

Okay I’ll give it
Another week or
So and see

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LostinParis offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Good luck my friend. If you want to talk about it later send me a message.

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TranquilTempest offline Verified User (3 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

I agree with LostinParis, it sounds like she misses you. If the relationship ended because she thought you were no longer interested, show her that you are.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

I’ll give it a whirl thanks
Guys!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 2 months ago (19 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Help

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