Love help: ok finaly just saying this becuase i want to but cant say it - Help.com

heartlessvas wrote:
Hey. If you guys are cool, then it should be cool. There are people who specifically go for 20+ plus years in either direction, 3 years is hardly anything. He saw the crappy revamps of shows you saw. Whoop-dee-doo.

yeah, there are people who go 20+ years in either direction… when they are adults and are on the same maturity level, they are peers on the same playing field. During adolescence, 14 and 17 are a psychological life time apart. I’m sorry, but that’s not only a bit creepy, but also worrying. When you are nearly an adult and you are going out with someone who is just in the beginning stages of adolescence, you have some major maturity problems of your own.

If you two click together, just go for it and see how it goes.

Just keep in mind the age difference and the very possibility your respective desires/ dreams will change quickly at that age. Goodluck!

thanks for all youve said and i know i just know that people my age freak out on anyone dateing with that much of a year diffrence they watch closely just on a year or two let alone our age diffrence and i know better then to say his real age to them so i keep lieing i just wanted to say it for once (long distance relationship easly to lie on) and why else would i date him if it dident click im the one whos older…

So a long distance relationship… with a 14 year old… when you are 17.

Yeah, I can’t see ANY possible problems coming from that.

I did not make this post to discuss the long distance thing or even the age diffrence i made this to finaly be able to say this for once if your going to be negitive about it leave me the f**k alone you *****

You sure told me. It’s definitly my fault for discussing something on a discussion forum… oops.

LEAVE ME THE F**K ALONE i mainly meant that i did not post this to get everyone to tell me that im wrong and stupid and have no clue what im doing im sorry if YOUR TOO STUPID TO UNDERSTAND THAT so if you insist to keep this up ill eather find a way to GET YOU OFF THIS POST or deleat it i WILL NOT take this from you i WILL NOT deal with this stupid judgement why do you think that i wont say this to anyone i know ya i know you dont becuase your too stupid to understand that its becuase of people LIKE YOU who seem to get pleasure from judgeing others and hurting others most of all so leave me the F**K ALONE BIT*H

Just fyi, if you can’t take a random person on the internet telling you that what you are doing isn’t a good idea, you aren’t going to be able to handle a relationship. However, I would rather not waste anymore time on this post when I can be helping other people who aren’t going to cuss me out for little reason, so good luck with the 14 year old and goodbye.

do you realize that if you would just quit acting like you know everything and cant be wrong maby i wouldnt be so mean to you but its becuase you dont understand that i react this way to you dont even realize that the whole reason i posted this thing is becuase i have a problem with people judgeing me and i wont have a single problem with this relationship becuase unlike what you think me having a problem with judgment does not have a direct affect on relationships there may be some people who have problems with judgement and relationships but that does not mean that it causes that so good bye i hope i never see you hear you or know you exist again please leave me be for the rest of my life (decides of course at least reading this post) i hope one day you understand what im trying to say