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Why do I miss him so much even though he was a jerk?

There’s this guy that I had been talking to for months and months. He has been so good on waiting for me patiently for a date, and he’s been understanding and he was so obsessed with me, and told me he loved me and everything. He sounded so genuine, and like he really wanted me as a serious girlfriend. I was really happy and everything seemed perfect, but then I found that he had other girls he was saying the same things to. I also saw that he turned out to be a completely different person than what I thought. I confronted him anout this and stopped talking so much to him and that’s when he turned into a real a**. He said he was never interested and just pretending because he was bored.
Why can’t I get him out of my head?? Even though we don’t belong together, and even though he ended up to be a jerk, why do I miss him so **** much?? Do I miss the idea of him because I surely don’t miss the real jerk he is, but I miss that side of him that was so sweet and kind, even though it may be fake. Why do I miss him so much???

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