scared help: im obsessed with trying to get people to like me.

Unwritten.

im obsessed with trying to get people to like me.

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i have no clue why, bu lately i have been overly nice, no fake, but a little nicer than usual . . i cant seem to figure i out though. . . its as if whenever i see someone i dont know, i switch into this mode where im overly helpful. im scared that people will think im weird (not that they already dont) but this is bothering me

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Ahhotep 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

I like you.

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moonlightsupper 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Here’s a good webpage with information on how to stop seeking approval from others:

http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Ap…

I hope you will find it useful :)

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Dr. Ozy 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 16 minutes after post)

how obsessed? like making your life much more difficult for yourself in order to help someone?

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Unwritten. 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 22 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
how obsessed? like making your life much more difficult for yourself in order to help someone?

not quite to that extent, but i have gone ot of my way. way out of my way.

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Dr. Ozy 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 31 minutes after post)

so is it seriously interfering with your social life?

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mindhealer 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 57 minutes after post)

I noticed you seemed nice and friendly on that lets-get-to-know-people post the other day. Something like that makes perfect sense even if others don’t respond much — someone has to be positive and social. If we all risk it then life becomes better. Sorry if this isn’t very relevant, it’s just something I noticed.

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Unwritten. 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 hours, 2 minutes after post)

a wild ozy appears wrote:
so is it seriously interfering with your social life?

not that much, because being an ambassador i need to be helpful and happy at most times, but i feel like i act weird when im overly helpful.

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Unwritten. 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 hours, 3 minutes after post)

mindhealer wrote:
I noticed you seemed nice and friendly on that lets-get-to-know-people post the other day. Something like that makes perfect sense even if others don’t respond much — someone has to be positive and social. If we all risk it then life becomes better. Sorry if this isn’t very relevant, it’s just something I noticed.

tank you, i try to be. and thats fine :)

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Dr. Ozy 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

ah, it doesn’t sound like a problem to me. if your biggest concern is that other people might think it’s odd that you’re so nice and helpful, then you’re good. ;)

as long as it doesn’t make you unhappy, i wouldn’t worry much about what other people think.

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